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Calm

I’ve never thought of myself as a frantic or stressed out person.  I mean, I am a city girl, so I’m sure there is some level of frazzled-ness that comes with that.  Just the constant battle of traffic.  Waiting in 20 minute long lines to get groceries, fighting for a good parking spot, you know… the usual city stuff.  It does cause some level of stress.  It has to, right?

The other day Devin said to me kind of out of nowhere, “you’re calm.”

I was a bit confused but said thank you, because I assume that is a compliment.  At least that’s how I took it.

I like that.  I want to be calm.  I love being around calming people, and I would love to be considered one of them.

Maybe this can be my new mantra.  Anytime I’m feeling overwhelmed or frustrated I can just think of the word… calm.  Just saying it makes you feel a little more at ease doesn’t it?  Something about that L matching up with the M.  It should be awkward, but it feels soothing even just pronouncing it.  Try it…. calm.

Or maybe I just found my happy place.  Who knows.  Either way, something is going right.

This past weekend was a happy one.  Saturday we took the ferry from our island over to the city to the Farmer’s Market.  It was crazy awesome.  I mean, could you honestly imagine a better commute than this?  This is how Devin gets to and from work each day.

And look… we are turning more and more SF with every passing minute.  Our stroller became the grocery cart for our organic kale and watermelon. :)

Sunday was great as well.  We walked to a little diner down the street for coffee and waffles.  It was one of those places just like Cheers, everyone knew everyone’s name.  They only accept cash, the bathroom is through the kitchen and the waitress was radical and had rainbow hair.  She also is super into planking, and showed me some pictures.

If you don’t know what planking is, I suggest you google it.  The internet is full of weird things.

From our little neighborhood diner we took a short drive to the now defunct Naval Base on the island where they hold a montly swap meet, much like the Rose Bowl flea market in LA.

After all of that, I was given the sweet gift of remembering that it was a three day weekend!  Yay Labor!!  So Monday we did the best thing we could do with a surprise extra day off – and went to the beach.

(that’s Devin out there!)

I hear a cold beer beckoning me from the fridge.  It’s time to put a tired baby to sleep and have a calm evening. Goodnight.

 

 

 

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At home.

This is my first post as an official Bay Area resident.  Woohoo!  We are here and moved in and are almost done unpacking boxes and hanging the art.  This was a big job.  From finding tenants for our home to packing to movers to flights, uhauls and caravans to unpacking… we somehow how made it here in one piece.

~my sister Jamie in our empty house~

We honestly couldn’t have done it without the help from our parents.  They came up to LA and watched Sadie for us every day last week while we packed.  And my in laws drove our car up here for us and stayed the first two days helping us unpack and break down all of the boxes.  I don’t know where we would be without all of that incredible help.  So a HUGE thank you to my mom & dad and to my mother & father-in-law Pam & Joe… THANK YOU!!

There were some very mixed emotions on the days leading up to our relocation.  I was excited for the new adventure & looking forward to being in a more family-friendly environment.  But, it was terribly hard to say goodbye to my family.  I know they will all come visit me soon (right guys??) but until then I’ll be missing them.  I’ll tell you the truth though.  Having a small baby doesn’t allow you much grievance time at all.  When my sister & brother dropped Sadie and I off at the airport to make our one way trip to SF, I was a wreck.  I was crying on the sidewalk, hugging them with all my might and didn’t want to walk away.  But when I finally mustered the ability to say goodbye for the 80th and last time and walk into the terminal – I had about 10 seconds to snap back into Mom mode because I was flying alone with a baby who needed me and was becoming increasingly fussy.  And that was that.  I was allowed to be sad for only under a minute, then I had a baby to entertain.

~Sadie and I boarding our plane from LA to Oakland~

And now I am here in my new home.  And I realllllly like it.  Our street dead ends at a canal, and we live a 4 minute walk to the State Beach.  We’ve already met about 10 of our neighbors.  I wake up looking at the garden that sits off the back of our bedroom.  Berkeley alternates between laying in the grass and sunbathing on the deck all day.  And Sadie, our little lady Sadie.  She’s happy.  She loves bathing in her very own claw foot bathtub.  She loves sitting in the grass in the backyard and trying to eat pebbles and dirt.  And she’s really been enjoying our daily walk to the water with Berkeley.

~our new street!~

~the canal about 200 feet from our front door~

Devin is happy too.  I can see it in him.  I’m so glad we made this choice to move.  It is honestly hard to picture a better situation for us.  I feel so at home.

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farewell.

Well, say it ain’t so.  After my almost 11 year romance with the beautiful city of Los Angeles, I am closing this chapter of my life and starting onto a new one.  If you’ve been following this blog for a while, you’d probably already know that we have been searching for a home in San Francisco for about 8 months now, and a week ago we found that home.  We are moving to a beautiful house on a tree-lined street in a quiet safe neighborhood with a 10 minute walk to the beach.  I must say, it’s perfection.

But this post is not about our new home.  This post is about my real home, LA.  I came here at the young age of 18 dreaming big dreams for myself and wanting to live my youth up.  And that my friends, I did.  I worked real hard and I partied hard.  I met some of the dearest people to my heart here in LA.  Living here gave me the opportunity to make friends with people around this country and all over the world.  I was exposed to art, music, culture, the fake, the real, bad days, great weeks and so much more.  I have many crazy stories – someday I should write a book about it all.  But one day in the midst of all of that, I fell in love.  And that, Los Angeles, is what I am most grateful for.

 

I fell so hard in love, got hitched and made a beautiful baby girl out of that love.  And with this new life is where the new chapter begins.  Sadie should live in LA.  She should experience all of its fun and beauty.  But for now – she should be given a big back yard with grass and a climbing tree.  She should be a walk away from a park.  That walk should be a safe one.  She should have neighbors her age that want to have play dates and someday sleep-overs.  She should be able to go trick-or-treating on her own street.  She should be given the opportunity to go to an amazing school with amazing teachers and not have to fight to be accepted to a preschool.  And we as her parents should do whatever we need to make sure we give her the best life possible.  And for the industry that Devin is in, San Francisco yields the best resources for us to provide her the life that she deserves.

We will miss our purple house in the hill.  The house that Devin proposed to me in.  The house we welcomed Sadie into.  Our home.  We have about 2 weeks left in it.  Time to soak up as much of it and LA as possible.  We will find someone good to take care of our home while we are gone – who knows, maybe someday we’ll be back.

all photos by Tofa Kagurabadza

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