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LA love

I finally, after two years since moving away, made the short trip back to LA to spend a few days with siblings and friends.  I’ve been through LA since moving away but hadn’t yet made a trip specifically to my old home without any other stops or agendas.  It was a daunting idea traveling away from home 7 months pregnant alone with a toddler.  But it turned out to be such an easy and fun trip… dare I even call it a vacation.

We opted to stay at a hotel rather than crashing with my brother or sister and I really feel that just that alone made the trip feel so relaxing.  There’s just something about those big king sized beds and white linens that make me feel so relaxed – wouldn’t you agree?

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I spent the bulk of our time in LA with my sister Jamie.  And I got to spend some good quality time with my brother and brother-in-law as well.  I know that once this little baby in my belly makes his grand appearance it will probably be a while before I am traveling again, so this time with them was very precious to me.  And besides for one day when Sadie skipped her nap and became uber grouchy she was well behaved which allowed me to really spend time with the friends and family I saw and stay engaged in adult conversation.

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We even got the chance to squeeze in a swim play date with Sadie’s LA pal, Georgia.  And man, I really forgot how hot that LA sun can be.  My sister kept reminding me that it was a really nice mild day for LA, but after spending a couple of years in the Bay my threshold for heat has most definitely changed.

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On my final night Jamie organized a girls dinner for me at the super delicious Maximillianos in HIghland Park.  It was a very lovely night seeing so many wonderful faces.  And a special shot out to the iPhone for keeping Sadie occupied for 2 hours so I could enjoy my old friends without much interference from toddler land.

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It was an amazing time, truly.  And Sadie was an angel and a super fun travel companion.  I hope to make it back home soon, this time with two kids in tow.  To all of my LA fam and friends… love you guys so much – thank you for taking the time to see us.  And to Jamie, thank you for devoting your entire week to escorting us around LA.  We love you too much.  Until next time, stay cool LA – see you soon.

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No Shirt, No Shoes, No Service Pt.2

This post is very belated.  And I’ll try and make it snappy.  There were so many important and memorable moments in our week long trip to SD with my parents.  So it’s difficult trying to pick out the few great split seconds I captured on camera out of the hundreds I got.  Choices, choices.

Dinner and dessert outside.  Clothing optional.

Sea World.  The only words Sadie muttered all day… “Yay Orca Whale!”

“one, teewoo, free…yay!”

Come on in and take a seat – Mr. Dollhouse Man

Peek a boo Pop pop!!

Watching football with the boys.

Uncle Jared!!!

Favorite exhibit at the San Diego Safari Park, a giant ball water fountain.

Billiards anyone??

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No Shirt, No Shoes, No service

Just got back home from what I’m sure will be Sadie’s last free ride on an airplane… she turns 2 in about 6 weeks (eek)!  She and I packed up and spent the past 6 nights and 7 days in sunny San Diego at my folks place.  The trip was very much needed, it had been 6 months since my Dad got to spend time with Sadie :(

I won’t lie… it is not easy traveling alone with a toddler or being away from home with toddler for that long, so I’m not desperate to do it again next week – but it was a beautiful time and such an experience for Sadie.  The happiness she had running around the house and property that I had the pleasure of growing up in was worth the travel x 10 million.

Much like my childhood, Sadie spent her days almost always shirtless, shoeless, pantless or some combination of all three and beyond.  That’s how it’s done out there.  It is no accident that my parents have a sprawling 3 acres of land of which almost all is impeccably landscaped.  It’s a perfect environment to run around barefoot and explore.

Our week at my parents or “Gamma and Pop pop” as Sadie would say, was filled with childhood enjoyment all day everyday.  They took us to Seaworld, Safari Park and Bates Nut Farm but not to overshadow the countless hours we spent swimming in the pool, playing with the hose and eating ice cream and popsicles.  I have to say though, what seemed to have been my dear daughters most favorite past time was a daily chore she diligently helped my mother carry out every…single…morning.  That was feeding the 2 cats Ava & Leo or as Sadie would say “Eba and Eeo”, feeding the dog Apollo (Polloh), and feeding the wild birds and refilling the birdbath.

The days were full and the evenings came early and easily.  Sadie would drift off to sleep and sleep through the night better than I’ve ever seen her do.  She seemed to go to bed completely satisfied and needed an entire night to recharge herself for when morning came.  When morning would break and I would creep into an awake and happy child’s room, she would look up and smile and say, “Mama, I feed birds bird seed?”  Clearly obsessed.

We only got home late last night and I have already ordered a bird feeder and bird bath on Amazon.  Apparently outdoor chores and feeding birds is this girls passion.

As with any trip goes, as much as you love being there, you are always happy to return home afterward.  And we are.  It seems like I’ve got her eating habits back on track – she was thrown off a bit in a new environment and ate a fraction of the food she’d usually intake.  But her sleeping has stayed bountiful (at least in our 1 and only night back).  She actually slept in til 9am this morning, and slept all night… in her own crib.  That’s a definite first for us.  And one that I hope becomes a pattern!

I will have to do a part 2 on this post.  There are far too many photos and I feel like I’m already bordering on too many.  Plus, I haven’t even touched on the fact that I got to see my brother while I was there. Yay Jared!  Anyhoo, I’ll be back soon with more from our week with the ‘rents.  Until then, stay classy San Diego!

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The Great Foley Adventure pt. 3

Our planned trip came to it’s close in Big Sur.  However, rather than spending the intended two last nights in Big Sur, we ended up only staying one night and then heading up to Carmel to stay there for the last night.  Big Sur is undeniably beautiful with pristine beaches, hiking trails and a gentle river flowing over smooth river rocks.

The problem we encountered while staying there was a) although the campsite claimed to have full rv hookups, they actually didn’t offer sewage so we were facing a potential problem when we couldn’t run water in the rv for fear of overflowing the tank. And b) our camp site as beautiful as it was, was right on a pretty heavy duty cliff that dropped into the river below.  It’s not that Sadie ever leaves our line of sight, but it was one of those what if kind of situations that we weren’t willing to risk.

So after a good day of hiking and bathing in the river and a good night of playing safely inside the rv (and losing all sense of manners) we skipped town and headed up to Carmel and Sand City.

I’ve driven to Big Sur before, but I had come up from LA so I had never made it further North than that on the highway 1.  I am so grateful that I got the chance to see the drive coming from the North this time around because holy sh$t!!! That is THE most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen.  The cliffs and beaches of Carmel have to be the most jaw dropping views in all of America’s coastline.  Like woah.  Bee-u-ti-ful.  I’m grateful for the chance to see something that beautiful, it’s something I won’t soon forget.

Carmel and Sand City were our last stops before heading back home.  Although it was a touch sad knowing that our week long family trip was coming to an end, I knew we were all a bit ready to sleep in our own bed/crib and wear some clothes not covered in sand/dirt.

To close up the trip in a nut shell… it was somewhat of a personal test for Devin and I as parents.  Just become we are now way more mom and dad than we are adventure seeker and spontaneous, doesn’t mean we can’t still strive to have a little adventure in our lives.  We weren’t sure how this was all going to pan out, honestly it could have turned out to be sheer hell.  But it didn’t.  We loved almost every minute of it.  It was the first full week that Devin has had with us since his paternity leave when Sadie was born.  He needed it, Sadie needed it, I needed it.  Sadie might not remember this trip but Devin and I will.  This is our story.  The stories my parents tell me about my young childhood and the photos they have of them young, wild and in love (which they still are, btw) with us kids in tow – that is what we are doing now.  This is our story, but really it’s Sadie’s.  We just have the honor of writing her story for her for the time being.

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The Great Foley Adventure Pt. 2

This is apparently turning into a 3 part series.  I imagined I could share it all in 2 posts, but there were just way too many great moments in our week to squeeze into 2 parts.  So, to jump in where I left off… our adventure continued in Santa Cruz.  Santa Cruz was the mildest of the spots we camped, aka the most non dusty and relatively bug free atmosphere you could imagine while camping.

I know that Santa Cruz might seem to be an off destination compared to the other “super nature” places we trekked to, but we really wanted to throw some good old fashion beach time into our trip mainly just for Sadie because boy oh boy she loves the beach.

Plus I had never been to the Boardwalk and I love me a good carnival.  Santa Cruz really has a lot to offer.  It’s a strange mix between surfer bro San Diego and hippie town San Francisco.  All of the locals were super friendly and the town is completely charming.  We made almost every meal over camp fire throughout our entire trip, but we did skip one morning to go out to breakfast in Santa Cruz.  We went to this tiny little place called The Hole in the Wall Cafe where I had the BEST huevos rancheros I’ve ever had in my entire liiiiiife.  I swear, if you’re ever there, try it.

Our little sweet girl, who is and has always been so friendly loved the camping environment.  She wanted to stand outside of the RV and wave to every man, woman and child (and dog) that came by.  All day long you’d hear her little voice, “Hiiii.  Hi boy.  Hi girl.  Hiiii dog!!! Good dog!  So cute.”  Seriously, she says “so cute” after many things that she says.  And if someone would ride by on a bike… forget about it!! She starts yelling “yaaay!” and claps until they are out of site.  That’s our Sadie, just the neighborhood cheerleader.

We also might have been the only family I saw camping with a toddler.  Which I get, it might not seem ideal.  But really, it is.  There isn’t much in this world that isn’t made sweeter by adding a little one to the mix.

Still to come – our trip to Big Sur, Carmel and Sand City.

 

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The Great Foley Adventure Pt. 1

Before we married, Devin and I made a promise to each other to take the time to go on one big vacation every year.  We have big dreams of far off countries, tropical beaches, exciting cities and new adventures.  However, with a toddler in tow plans can get a bit altered.  So this year we planned something a bit different from anything we’ve done before.  We chose to rent an RV and camp out across Northern California for a week.  First stop Yosemite.

Yosemite Valley is in a word, unreal.  These out of this world prefect rock formations nestled in sprawling fields of wild grass and a pristine white water river running right through the middle.  I’d love to go back again and discover more of Yosemite.  With only such a short time there I know we missed so much of it.  But onward ho… we still had Santa Cruz, Big Sur and Carmel ahead of us.

Cramming two adults, one toddler and bulldog into a compact RV was kind of a scary idea but it really worked great.  We were in tight quarters, no doubt.  But it felt comfy and cozy.  We slept all curled up on each other, laps were shared for eating meals and most baths were just dips into freezing cold rivers.  Pure perfection.

There really is nothing like a little outdoors and some fresh air to create a successful and memorable family trip.  I know that there is no way that Sadie will ever remember this trip she took with her parents in the summer of 2012, but we will remember it forever and we have more that enough footage to show Sadie how much fun it was.

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